3 Simple Steps To Having Everything You Have Ever
Wanted In Life
can have absolutely anything you want in life. You simply need to
understand how to produce the desired results. There's a very simple
three-step formula that you can use to create any result you want
in life. To illustrate how this process works, we're going to suppose
that it's your desire to create harmonic health. (If creating health
is not something you're interested in, simply replace health with
whatever you desire when following the exercise.)
To have health you must be healthy. Now I know what
you're thinking, "Yeah, that's right. Tell me something I don't
know. I don't have health because I'm not healthy." Your state
of being is a critical step in becoming healthy or any other change
you make. The next 3 steps won't work correctly until you can change
your state of being.
Think of it this way. The ability to ask for something
is really nothing more than an image that you hold of yourself deep
inside your mind. You can 'be' many things... a football fan, a
Christian, a vegetarian, a mother, the list goes on. You know it's
a state of being when you don't have to think about it and question
it all the time - you just know that you are that particular role
The problem comes in when we need to change our state
of being in order to produce a new and desired result. For example,
let's suppose you've been overweight your entire life. In your mind
you are a fat person. That's a state of being. And let's assume
you go on a diet and as you lose weight your body is transformed
into a thin and trim picture-perfect model.
Are you a fat person or are you a thin person? Unless
you've done something more than just go on a diet which only effects
your body, you are still a fat person. Given time your body will
revert back to its old self. Why? because the change must take place
from the inside out. Otherwise, your outer body and your inner self
will be in conflict. The body (the thin person) is fit, trim and
full of energy. Your inner self (the fat person) still holds the
image of someone who is overweight. Eventually, your inner self
will win the battle and your body will concede.
In order to produce lasting change and create the
result that you really want, you must change your state of being.
You must erase the old picture and accept your new role or title
as what and who you are. The truth is you can be anything you choose
to be. Today, right this very minute, you can be healthy. Just decide.
You have a right to be healthy. You can be healthy. It's just a
matter of a simple decision. So, be healthy.
STEP ONE - ASK
have to understand that asking is nothing more than having an intention
to experience something, communicating that intention and expecting
a result consistent with your intention. You also have to understand
that this process begins with what you think about all day.
This one's a little bit harder. The first thing you
need to realize is that your thoughts create your life. If you don't
believe me, look around right now at your life (where you live,
the job you have, the cars you drive, the relationships you have,
etc) - all of these things are a direct result of the thoughts you
have constantly focused on up until now.
You (and your thoughts!) are responsible for both
the good and the bad. Like we mentioned previously, what's great
about this idea is that you can stop living your life as a victim
and start taking control and creating the life that you desire.
To be healthy you need to begin to think thoughts of health. You
must completely eliminate negative thoughts. As soon as a negative
thought creeps up on you, squash it! Get rid of it right away.
Begin to think positive and healthy thoughts. Don't
think about not having health or not being able to achieve your
ideal weight or not being able to have something you really want.
Instead, think only positive thoughts. Imagine every outcome as
the best possible scenario. See yourself with an abundance of energy,
with more than you need. Not tomorrow - not next week - not next
year - now! You must see it NOW!
NOW is the only point of power. Yesterday doesn't
matter, tomorrow doesn't exist. Only NOW makes any difference. You
can eliminate almost 100% of fear, doubt, worry, anxiety, guilt,
etc., if you'll simply refuse to live in the past or predict the
future (as far as the negative things that "could" happen.)
NOW is all that matters - it's all there is. Begin to live in the
NOW seeing yourself as BEING healthy, as having more than you could
ever want or need. If you'll do that, barring doubt and negative
thoughts, you will have it!
What you think about you bring about. If you want
to change your life you can only do so by changing your thoughts.
So, if you want to be healthy, you must begin to think as a healthy
person. The results will follow, I know it's true.
STEP TWO - BELIEVE
In order to fulfill the promise of asking and receiving you must
believe you have received exactly what you asked for!
Your words are very powerful. They tend to follow
your thoughts. Just as with "being" and "thinking",
your words can work for you or against you. The choice, as always,
You must watch your words because - just as it is
with 'thinking' - what you talk about, you bring about. This is
another immutable law. You can't change it but you can benefit from
it if you understand how to use it properly.
need to begin speaking yourself into health. Begin using "I
am" statements. I am healthy. Not "someday" I'll
be healthy, or I'm going to be healthy. I am healthy - present tense,
in the NOW!
Pay attention to what you say. Don't go around speaking
yourself poor, sick, unhappy, etc. Say only positive things. You
can literally change your entire life by simply changing what you
think and what you say.
I take this very seriously. A rule in my relationships
is that everyone must have something good to say, to every person,
every time. And no one can walk around saying "we can't"
do something or "it's too hard" or "we don't have
enough" or "it's not working" or "I just knew
(whatever bad thing) was going to or is going to happen." This
kind of talk is absolutely forbidden.
Watch your words. A good way to really get a handle
on how you speak is to get a tape recorder and walk around with
it for a few days. Tape record everything you say and play it back
at the end of the day. You'll be shocked, even while knowing you
were being taped, what kind of negative, self-defeating and critical
words you use in a day.
Change your speaking right away. Practice saying very
little and not reacting to any news verbally until you can speak
positive, prosperous outcomes in every situation.
STEP THREE - RECEIVE
The last step in the Creation Process is action. You're already
'being' a healthy person. You're thinking like a healthy person
and speaking like a healthy person. Your last step is to act like
a healthy person. How do you act healthy? It's simple. Go where
healthy people go. Visit healthy places. Do healthy things. Read,
listen to, and watch healthy information. Saturate your sense with
healthy experiences. Rub elbows with other healthy people.
You don't have to spend money to do this. Healthy
people don't spend every moment of the day spending money. But if
you do, spend it with a generous and grateful spirit knowing that
you actively confirming by your actions what you want or need.
Start right now. Begin acting like the healthy person
that you are. It doesn't matter if your current surroundings or
circumstances make it appear that you're not healthy. If you will
be, think, speak and act healthy, you will be healthy. That's the
3-Step Formula for creating any result you want in life. It's a
simple process to learn, but it will take some time to do. You have
to really be aware and live in the NOW. Don't let your mind wander
off and create scenes of "lack" or "scarcity."
Don't let your words get away from you and speak in negative or
scarce terms. And don't act in unhealthy ways.
Health is a state of being. As soon as you understand
this you will be healthy. This is the reason that a healthy person
can become ill and within just a short time be right back on top.
You can separate a healthy person from their well-being temporarily
but they will always be healthy. And this ability is just a by-product
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If you'll follow these steps and practice positive
living every day, your life will be transformed before your very
eyes. You have my personal promise!
Richard A. DiCenso