by cassiegose » Wed Oct 21, 2009 12:13 pm
Hi Pat,
You are NOT meant to be overweight. Nobody is. Some people just have to work harder than others. Many people make comments to me about "how lucky I am to be skinny" however they don't realize that in order to be fit I have to work my ASS off day in and day out and have to really pay attention to my diet. I can't things like pastries, ice cream, cookies... or really any kind of junk or I would be overweight. The majority of my family is overweight and have serious health issues because of it. Seeing them not only shows me what wonderful genes i was blessed with, but also reminds me of why i workout everyday and why I make it a priority to watch my diet. The reason i'm telling you this Pat is because I want you to know that i totally understand what its like to feel like you have everything against you when it comes to losing weight. However, keep in mind that being fit and healthy isn't just about the way you look... its about the way you feel, its about your self esteem, and its about preventing diseases like heart disease, diabetes, cancer, and all the other ailments that come about when people don't take care of themselves. I know that it can be SO DISCOURAGING when you feel like youre working so hard to make progress and it seems like its taking forever to see results. I also know how frustrating it can be to work so hard, then cut back for a while and feel like you've lost so much in just the short time that you cut back. Sometimes it really does feel like youre paddling upstream against the wind.
Sometimes the journey to weight loss really is two steps forward and one step back. However as long as youre putting more steps forward than you are back you are still making progress. When you do get discouraged or have questions, we'll be here to cheer you on and keep you pushing forward. When you have success we'll be here to pat you on the back and when you slack off I'll personally be here to tell you to get your butt back in gear. At 14 pounds down (even if some is water weight) you really are doing awesome!
Elk Jerky... I'm so jealous right now! Our elk season starts in the next couple weeks and I REALLY hope my fiance gets one! Are you making the jerky yourself or having it made? We make ours on the dehydrator and it turns out really good. If you make it yourself you can decide how much salt you want in it. Obviously you will need some salt but if you're making it yourself you could atleast put less in than store bought varieties. Salt isnt the best for you, however if the rest of your diet is lower in salt then you should be fine. However if you're eating the jerky and loading all of your other dishes up with salt then yes, you would be consuming too much salt.
You're doing really great. Stick with it and you will meet your goals. As I said before, we'll be here for you every step of the way.
Cassie
PS: GREAT JOB on the oatmeal. If all you can do is a serving of oatmeal with some protein powder in the morning then that is just fine. Just eat again when you can.