GOOD LUCK with everything you'll have to go through with your Dad
. The main thing is to be strong for him and not let him think he's possibly putting you through some negative stuff, incase he might feel guilty, because his situation looks like it's hurting people he cares about.
I'm sure you'll be able to get through this and my best wishes are with you and my support, as well as the communities support. Whatever happens, we will be here for you, because you've always behaved so beautifully towards us and it's times like this, that we give a little back to those that have earned and deserve it.
He is very lucky to have a daughter like you and it will be of great comfort to him in at this difficult time I'm sure.
You're a pretty special person and you should be very proud of yourself for it too. Forget the incident with the confectionary and just move on as normally as possible. You wrote about it, which makes it more real, so not something to repeat too quickly and you CAN move on and keep doing your best for you.
That's something else you need to do too, during this difficult situation with your Dad, which is to try and keep your life as normal as possible, including the lifestyle needs. The more you look after yourself, the more of a daughter you'll be able to be to your Dad and the less concerns he might get about how you're coping.
I know you can do this and you can be consistent and give yourself plenty of reasons to be proud of yourself.
Chin up and good luck again yeah and if you need a little one to one, without dumping it on family, PM me anytime, because moderators can be here for you to have a private chat with, about sensitive or personal issues and I'll keep what's said, strictly between you and I, I guarantee that