musculArgirl2 wrote: go relax at home. That's an order!!!
Nokie173 wrote:Got a lot done and I got to sleep before 1AM which was my goal. So, I got about 5 hours of sleep and I’m feeling a bit better!
Nokie173 wrote:However, we finally decided sign a contract and talked to our videographer and the minister and also booked our hotels in Korea and Japan!
musculArgirl2 wrote:Glad you did get some stuff accomplished though. With all you got going on how you fit in exercise i don't know!
Nokie173 wrote:Little venting… Saw my MIL the past weekend after being aboard for sometime and I found out she had her dress custom made. The color was off white and the material was almost like my wedding dress. Guess what? And…. Surprise surprise… It’s more expensive than my wedding dress (Actually, not so surprising) !!! Makes me wonder who is getting married here?? – Like really?? You wanna look like the bride on my freaking wedding day?? Whatever! Sigh… *Breathe* Ohwell, Its not a battle worth fighting and I just don’t have room for my health to be stress over it but I just had to let it out somewhere because it’s freaking frustrating and damn annoying…
Athene wrote:Unreal!! Your mother-in-law is way out of line!
You are being so understanding and mature if this is the only venting you have done!
Nokie173 wrote: Thanks Bossman for the motivation. I wasn’t going to workout at all but I read your comment while I was waiting for the doc. When I got home… BAM did whatever I had to do.
Boss Man wrote:He clearly knows what side his bread is buttered
musculArgirl2 wrote:Do you like being as busy as you are Nokie?? Or do you like or wish you had more down time too?? I was just wondering. Keep it up girl the end is in sight. 4/29 right??
Nokie173 wrote:Becky, no I do not like being this busy. Of course, I would LOVE to have more down time. So I can take some mini vacations and go to wine country and enjoy B&B, wine tasting and spa massage. Or stay home and read Japanese comic books and watch Japanese animations, like a marathon. Or just have more me time and sleep in without worrying doing chores around the house, driving my parents to their appointments, paying bills & budgeting (both my parents, mine, and me and my fiancé’s) or thinking about work and deadlines, or who else I have to contact for wedding stuff …… Yeah, it would be nice to relax more. Unfortunately, reality is…. I do not have much down time and I’m constantly on the go. I can’t complain because I have no time to (except when I’m venting in here… LOL ).
Even though I’m busy with everything and tired a lot of times… I keep my head up high and always keep a positive attitude. I’m not always this busy or maybe I will when I start my own family. At one time, I had 2 jobs and worked from 6AM-9:30PM almost every workdays and I still had the same responsibilities. I take it as a good practice and it helps me manage my time wisely. And when I do have down time… I will totally take advantage of it. SLEEP! No matter what condition I am in, I’ll always remember I’m fortunate. I still have both of my parents alive with me, I have a decent paying job with medical insurance (too bad it’s not free in America) I have a fiancé (who got my back, now!) I have good friends and good health. Also, I have a good community here . I always want to be thankful with what I have because it keeps me positive and moving forward. It’s not perfect, but I’m thankful. Yes, I’m overly stressed & extremely busy… but I’m glad I have support!
So Becky, no matter how busy I am... I’ll support you too with your goals… but in order for us, the community to help… you gotta push yourself too
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