Well firstly, I have to say that you look great
. You look like someone that at 35 is maturing beautifully, so well done on working hard to improve yourself physically, as it looks like it's really working.
As for what you are considering, you have a wonderful attitude to your body. So many females act is if weights are the spawn of Satan, that will make them look like a dude, which is just absolute tommyrot and some kind of old wives tale type tommyrot that started to be spread around at some point in the past by ignorant and / or misguided sections of society.
That's one reason why a lot of females waste 20-30 minutes of a session, using ickle wickle amounts of weight, that have about as much effect as doing two push-ups a week.
Your approach is exactly what I would encourage people to consider. It isn't about females having to have 10lbs of added muscle, but it would help in later life for reducing potential frailties and also in all their lives to reduce risk of attacks and build confidence.
So I would say to you, be very proud of yourself and don't stop believing in your goals. Your attitude is spot on and your ability to be a positive influence on people on this site with your attitude, results and appearance will be a great leveller and we will certainly support, encourage and welcome you in our community.
I hope you'll be sticking around for a long time to come, because anything you can say to anyone, no matter how big or small, WILL make a difference and will be appreciated.
In the mean time, good luck and best wishes
P.S. that hairstyle is bonkers, but it definitely adds character to your face and enhaces your good looks