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Goal Achievement & The Non-Conscious Mind - Believe
In Yourself To Reach Goals
The
word belief seems to engender a sense of some ordered hierarchy
of truth. Well, beliefs are not necessarily "truth" at
all. They are actually just specific neural patterns in the brain
produced by thoughts that have been repeated so frequently they
have become automatic. They do not exist because they are "the
truth" but because they have been passed on and handed down
for generations. They are there because someone put them there.
Now this has nothing to do with faith or religious views. This
is about beliefs in the form of habitual thoughts, opinions, and
attitudes about the world around you and especially your beliefs
about you, your life, your circumstances, your potential, and your
future. It's been said that by age seventeen, we've heard the words
"No, you can't," around 150,000 times and the words "Yes,
you can," about 5,000 times. That's just the kind of perceptual
influence that contributes to a powerful belief of "No, I can't".
Further polluting this toxic environment is the view that goals
are simply hopes or wishes. But, whether recognized consciously
or not, the underlying belief supporting hopes and wishes is that
you know it will never happen. In fact, the biggest obstacle to
successful change has nothing to do with external conditions. It's
an internal conviction based upon the belief that it is not possible;
that it will never happen, or it can't be done.
If you think you can do a thing or think you
can't do a thing, you're right.
~Henry Ford
If you don't believe it will happen, it's guaranteed that it won't.
You cannot achieve a goal that you do not believe you can achieve,
because those beliefs live in the part of the brain that is running
the show. The fear, doubt, unbelief, and failure that plague people's
lives are not the problem, they are the symptom. They are the result
and the fruit of seeds that have already been sown. The fruit will
always match the seed and the seed is your habitual pattern of thought.
It is your habits, not your desires or other conscious thoughts
that dictate behavior and results. Setting goals is a function of
the conscious mind. Reaching them is a function of the non-conscious
mind.
AND THE QUESTION IS?
If
the beliefs you presently hold are the cause of your current results,
how do you change them and adopt new beliefs? We already know that
it can't be done with the short-term intervention of willpower,
unless you just want to change things for a few minutes? It should
be obvious by now that in order to change habits and beliefs, you
must engage them where they reside, in the non-conscious mind. You
can use your conscious mind to design the changes, but that's not
where they live and it's not where the change is going to happen.
Retraining the non-conscious part of your personality paradigm
involves two steps. First, as you've already done, you choose the
thoughts you want to have as your beliefs. Next, you will systematically
impress these thoughts on the non-conscious part of the brain. Choosing
your thoughts is similar to selecting your meal from a menu. You
explore the options, imagine the experience and place your order.
You will have already begun imagining what the result will be, how
you'll feel when you get it, and what a great experience having
it will be like. However, until you place the order, knowing that
your request will be fulfilled, nothing has been accomplished except
the expectation of a result.
The same rules apply to selecting a desired outcome from the "Soup"
of the quantum buffet. You can explore the possibilities, select
a desired outcome, and choose the thoughts associated with your
expectation. But, don't make the mistake of believing just because
you're thinking about it, it will happen; the thought has to be
communicated to the fulfillment center. This is the difference between
setting goals and achieving goals.
Setting goals (deciding what you want), is a conscious function.
Receiving the desired outcome is a non-conscious function. Unless
and until these two functions are fully integrated you will never
achieve, receive or experience what you really, really want. Having
the initial desire is a good start but it doesn't deliver results.
Understanding this process will help to reinforce the belief that
allows you to receive because as you impress your desired outcome
on the non-conscious delivery system as an implicit set of instructions
to be fulfilled, you can transform that desire into a habit of thought
- a belief.
Once that is accomplished, nothing can stop it from being created
and delivered. So, for the moment, as best you can - simply remember:
"You attract to your life whatever you give your energy, focus,
and attention to, whether wanted or unwanted". The Universe
takes these thoughts as instructions and returns them to you in
the form of experiences and things. This is all accomplished within
the operating system of the non-conscious mind.
Surely you've recognized by now that the ability to change your
experience is your responsibility and that you possess all of the
innate attributes to accomplish this. I'm sure you also realize
that this process is not dependent upon more information; simply
the right information, in the right order, impressed upon the right
area of the brain. At this point you will have initiated the process
of change with your daily disciplines.
As
you now know, having the information necessary to accomplish something
is a critical part of the process of change. But, unless that information
is applied, nothing different will happen and your outcomes will
be the same as always. But, be encouraged. There's still a little
more for you to be aware of and understand, as we refine the final
steps in the receiving department.
When you start examining the limiting beliefs and attitudes that
are keeping you stuck where you are, the obstacles begin to disintegrate.
When you acquire a new level of understanding the outer limits of
your potential expand to encompass all of the possibilities and
capabilities available to you. As you begin to pursue your goal
you'll experience spontaneous leaps in understanding and overall
consciousness. But, you'll also encounter something else; "RESISTANCE".
To fully understand how and why this occurs, let's take a brief
peek at some critical functions designed into our brains that actually
participate in this process. In a moment we'll take a look at a
concept called neuroplasticity. Prior to this discovery it was believed
that the process of cell division that creates new brain cells (neurogenesis)
slowed down early in life and stopped altogether by the time of
adolescence.
The basic model of development looked something like this:
- Early wiring of crucial brain circuits active until around
two-years of age
- During this time genetic heritage is fully incorporated into
our brains
- This comprises 50% of the adult brain configuration
- The other 50% is comprised of experiences and observations
From this point on we have held additional beliefs resulting in
erroneous conclusions based upon the interpretation of some developmental
facts. They look something like this:
- Children's brains contain nerve cells called mirror neurons
- They help us mimic behaviors we observe in our environment
- Mimicking these behaviors and emotions creates our personality
- This includes behaviors, feelings, attitudes, beliefs, and
thoughts
- As we age we behave and think the way we have been taught
- By adulthood we are hardwired to experience life through these
filters
AND THEN ALONG CAME NEUROPLASTICITY
Aside from the discoveries that the earth revolved around the sun
and was not flat, this discovery pretty much flipped our perception
of reality upside down. It seems the new reality is that the process
of neurogenesis does not stop at adolescence and that we are making
new brain cells and new neural connections throughout our entire
adult lives. So, no excuses here; no matter how old you are your
brain is perfectly capable of creating entirely new neural pathways.
However, if you do nothing significant to alter the existing neural
pathways you will continue to go through life with the same beliefs,
attitudes, perspectives and patterns of thinking, resulting in exactly
the same experiences. But the fact is that you can choose to override
and rewrite your own genetic coding. We are all wired to grow our
creativity, intelligence, and capacity for achievement throughout
our entire lives. This concept is critical to the science of successful
change but there are a couple of built-in failsafe devices we need
to deal with.
Now it's time to focus on the most critical elements of this design
that can actually allow for the process of successful change to
occur or stop it dead in its tracks. For a more detailed overview
of these elements please refer to my article dealing with "Keeping
a Winning Mind Set".
By Dr.
Richard A. DiCenso
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