The main thing is, you have come to terms about not meeting that goal. The thing is, getting somewhere with this, is better than getting nowhere, because you gave up, or basically never cared in the first place, about how your body looked, or how unhealthy it might have been.
Moving in the right direction is the key and you are doing that now and I'm really happy for you, oh and
HAPPY BIRTHDAY as well to you.
I hope the coming 12 months will bring you so much happiness and good times Jen. You're another person I've come across in life, who I can genuinely say, is a beautiful person on the inside and worth so much to this world and you're a real star, because of the person you are on the inside and what it means and can do for others.
I'm sending you a
BIG PAT ON THE BACK, to let you know I'm proud of you for what you've achieved and whatever the coming 12 months bring, I will be someone you can talk to, if you ever need to get stuff off your chest, without dumping it on people around you and I will be here to support you, encourage you and push you, becases you've more than earned that

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So GOOD LUCK for the future, chin up, keep believing and don't stop looking for a better and even more brighter you. You're a pretty amazing Lady and I am so proud to have been part of your journey and shared this community with you and I hope I can continue to do the same, if you'll let me

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This site needs people like you to add more colur and richness, so THANK YOU for what you have given us over the years, it is really, really appreciated and so are you

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