truth pleasee..

[swanso5]

rule number 1 - don't listen to men, we can be real dickheads

ecspecially those 20 year olds...

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[sandigirl06]

Swanso has a very good point! lol

[Boss Man]

rule number 1 - don't listen to men, we can be real dickheads

You do realise some females might take that literally, and every time you post, they'll ignore it and decide to continue eating 800 calories a day, doing loads of steady state on the treadmill, and pumping a hefty 3 plates on the Pec Deck .

[Bonnie]

You do realise some females might take that literally, and every time you post, they'll ignore it and decide to continue eating 800 calories a day, doing loads of steady state on the treadmill, and pumping a hefty 3 plates on the Pec Deck .

Lmfao boss man

Dear girl, never start a sentence with " some said ... " Live for yourself not a man & in agreeance with everyone else, muscle would be beneficial, not weight loss, best of luck

[shwet]

i try =(. lol, it's because when they say that legs are fat they say over and over and it really hurts and makes me feel bad about legs

[Bonnie]

Well a bit of muscle makes for awesome shapely legs

[Boss Man]

That's understandable, if someone says something like that enough times, it will eventually start to dent your emotions. Heck if it didn't, you'd probably have an impermeable inner self, which means you'd probably lack emotion, making you a horrible person that couldn't feel anything much.

The main thing is not to rise to it. Change for yourself not others. It's not their body. You have to live with it, you have to feel comfortable in it. Your individual look, is there primarily to make you feel good, when you look at it, not anyone else when they do, though that could be seen as positive knock on effect to others, of you looking good.

If you want to change enough in a positive way you can. Your mind has the strength needed to do that. It needs to be sought, but it's there. You can be proud of taking that first step to saying, I feel I need change, and I want to get / have it. If you keep believing in your own ability to make that change happen, that's more than half the battle won.

So try not to indulge nay sayers, and their profit of doom mentality, as it will only self harm your chances. Listen to people like us who think well of you, and you'll have the extra emotional energy you need and deserve, to help you keep believing in yourself and changing how you want to.

You're one of us now. You've shown the respect we deserve and this site deserves, so we will be here for you.

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[sandigirl06]

Ok, I viewed your pics. GIRL, U HAVE AN AWESOME FIGURE!!!! Those boys have to be blind or maybe a little intimidated. There is nothing wrong with your legs or anything else on you! Embrace your beauty!!!

[kevbrn]

i try =(. lol, it's because when they say that legs are fat they say over and over and it really hurts and makes me feel bad about legs

Your hanging out with the wrong crowd! Looking good! As just about everyone else here has said, do it for you and no one else.

Kev

[Nokie173]

I know what you mean… whole family always called me fatty! From a little girl until recently…. And guess what happen throughout that time? I got even fatter! But when I decided to be healthy for own self… I’m losing weight! Now they are thinking I’m starving myself or taking some kind of diet pills … Can’t win with their opinions… Because people will always have something to say!

Keep your head up girl… you are fine the way you are, but if you want to build muscles on your legs then do it because you want to!

[clare_1]

I know from experience that when a 'boy' is mean to you it usually means they really have the hots for you.

If they say it again get your own back and just say 'Im not interested in you or what you think, now chuff off'.

Silly little boys drive me insane and i relish teaching them some manners. Haha.

You look great. Dont be crazy and lose any weight. Get some muscle on you and you will get even sexier. trust me.

[bubblebuttguy2]

you have a very nice body:)